Backdoor Exploration
Anal sex is something special. Many, many young people and enthusiastic couples like to engage in this sexual activity. It is because it implies pleasure, bliss and even Os – if it is done properly.
Most women experience pain and unpleasant sensations during their first anal encounter. Thus they decide to get rid of this idea despite their inner willingness to try it again.
As women hear that this is an enjoyable pastime and their male partners like it they make the attempt to do it one more time. Of course, like it or not, the greatest role belongs to the man. The giver is in charge for every motion, step and the receiver's pleasure. This is the reason why men should be patient, serious and very careful when it comes to partner's tight backdoor and feelings.
Lubrication is a step that should be taken into account the most. As our butts don't have the ability to naturally lubricate we have to provide them with watery sensations. We need a lubricant for this purpose. One that will not irritate the responsive tissues of the rectum and will not get sticky in a jiffy. We need a lube that will last longer making the intercourse less painful and delightful.
Fingers are very important when it comes to anal sex and a newbie, a virgin opening. As fingers are skillful buddies and always listen to our commands, they are perfect messengers for our partner's tunnel. They don't have to wound, harm and hurt. That's why the giver's nails has to be cut shortly and well manicured to avoid injuries.
If your hands are clean, nails are short and you are ready to explore your partner's butt, delicately insert one finger into the hole. In and out motions are very welcome. You may also gently rotate your finger thus relaxing the anal muscles and making free space for other fingers to “lodge”. For other fingers – that means 2 or maximum 3. Don't even think of fisting! Seldom, I would say, very seldom, a few women would like to have a big fist in their butt.
Aside from fingers, use sex toys for backdoor exploration. For instance – ass plugs or the so-called butt plugs. These inanimate bodies are very popular among anal amateurs. Ass plugs are smooth, cleverly designed to not slip into the opening due to their wide flared base. They represent a kind of dildo but are smaller and more suitable to use guaranteeing safer sex.
Ass plugs are so different. That means every potential customer will find the perfect one that will meet his/her own preferences and tastes. Smooth, veined or richly nubbed... Glittered, glowing-in-the-dark or translucent ass plugs are eager to satisfy your desires and sexual cravings. You should definitely have one if you are going to try anal sex. For extra variety!
Briefly saying anal sex is a very “delicious piece” that should be tasted. Don't hesitate to play this kinky game and add more piquancy to your sex life!
Posted by Oxy at November 19, 2008 Read full article